Be prepared to adapt to changes and solve problems on the fly. Mid-project adaptations—like deciding whether to rebuild supports—can save time and resources.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Be prepared to adapt to changes and solve problems on the fly. Mid-project adaptations—like deciding whether to rebuild supports—can save time and resources.
Adjusting your expectations throughout the design and construction can lead to a more satisfying outcome. Being able to see the beauty in your choices, even if they differ from the initial plan, can enhance the final result.
If you are aiming for sustainability, plan for high-performance energy features (e.g., Passivhaus standards) from the start rather than retrofitting these elements later.
Be open to acquiring new skills. Leigh and Richard had no prior experience in building or restoration but learned as they went, which can be an invaluable part of the process.
If you are co-building with a partner, engage them in discussions about the project. Shared responsibility can help manage stress and ensure both parties’ vision is incorporated.
Prepare for unforeseen site-specific challenges, such as drainage or the ecological viability of landscaping plans (e.g., the Randolphs’ pond was more complicated than expected).
Have a clear vision of what you want to achieve with the project. With multiple architectural decisions to navigate, knowing your ultimate goal helps keep decisions aligned throughout the building process.
Design should not only reflect aesthetics but also functionality. Ensure that the layout supports how you will live in the space, considering flow and usage patterns.
Always plan a contingency budget for unforeseen expenses, as material costs can fluctuate and change orders can arise. Henry went significantly over budget, underscoring the importance of being financially prepared.
After moving in, observe how the building performs in terms of energy efficiency and comfort. Understand that some systems (like the wind turbine) may not provide immediate results, and adjustments may be necessary later.
Understand that not every design element may materialise as you initially envisioned. Flexibility is key—what works in theory may need adjustments in reality.
Understand that building a home is a major life project that can take time. Aiming for perfection can lead to burnout; embrace the process and allow it to evolve naturally. This slow approach can help keep stress levels down and encourage thoughtful construction choices.
Pay attention to the details and invest in quality materials. High-quality construction and thoughtful detailing contribute significantly to the overall aesthetic and durability of the building.
Consider using technology, such as mock-ups and virtual modelling, to visualise the end results before committing to permanent installations. This step can prevent costly mistakes.
Always expect costs to exceed initial estimates. Have a contingency fund for overruns and be prepared for unplanned expenses.
Always anticipate that costs might exceed your initial budget, especially for structural elements or if unforeseen challenges arise during construction.
Adaptability can be essential during renovations or constructions. Changes to the plan may be necessary as the project develops, as seen when Jane decided to change the colour and design of bathroom tiles due to aesthetic preferences.
Understand that renovation or conversion projects, especially with old buildings, can experience significant delays. Factor this into your planning and avoid having a strict deadline that could cause unnecessary stress.
If something feels off or if advice from professionals contradicts your vision, trust your instincts. At times, Gwyn and Kate had to navigate differing opinions on design and practicality in their vision for the home.
Maintain open communication with builders and relevant parties throughout the project. This can help in promptly addressing any issues or misunderstandings that could hinder progress.
If hiring contractors, ensure their hire is justified and mishaps are minimised by having a reliable project manager or architect, particularly for complicated design elements.
If financial issues arise during construction, avoid drastic changes to your original plan without consulting with design and construction professionals. Consider if changes will compromise the overall vision.
Investing in high-quality materials pays off in the long term, both in terms of durability and aesthetic value. Ian and Sophie’s decision to use quality timber and bespoke elements enhanced the building’s appeal.
When establishing contracts, ensure everything is documented, including agreements on cost overruns. A “gentleman’s agreement” can be risky; be clear about potential limits to liability for unpredicted costs.
Ensure that the foundational work is executed by specialists to avoid issues down the line. A strong foundation is crucial for unconventional builds.
Set realistic timelines, and account for potential delays inherent in renovation projects, especially when working with unique structures. The couple had a tight five-month deadline and managed to extend it slightly, demonstrating the importance of flexibility.
While designing the house, it’s important to think about aesthetics (like the dragon-scale zinc cladding) alongside practical needs (like flood resistance). The final design should harmonise form with function.
Frequent changes to the design can significantly delay the project and escalate costs. Limit alterations once construction is underway to avoid complications.
Self-building can have a steep learning curve. Embrace the learning process and don’t be afraid to seek help or resources if faced with unfamiliar tasks.
Ensure proper safety measures when handling heavy materials, as injuries can lead to setbacks and additional costs.
Be patient with the process and flexible with your plans. Unexpected challenges will arise, and your ability to adapt will be crucial to the project’s success.
Understand that adapting to challenges, viewing setbacks as learning experiences, and remaining flexible in thinking will ultimately enhance not just the project workflow but overall satisfaction with the end result.
Stick to your vision and resist the temptation to make changes during construction. Compromising your design halfway can lead to confusing results and additional complications.
Consider employing architects or project managers, particularly for complex projects. Trying to manage everything without adequate professional assistance can lead to errors and misunderstandings that could have been avoided.
Building on a site with an existing structure can be expensive. The Randolphs paid more by demolishing a bungalow for access to land that already had planning permission, highlighting the need to be financially prepared for potential complexities.
Understand that construction often runs behind schedule. Accepting delays with a positive attitude can reduce stress and keep the project moving forward.
Embrace technology in the building process, such as energy systems and building techniques that enhance sustainability and liveability while being mindful of the initial costs.
Engage an architect or designer who understands and shares your vision from the outset. This can prevent miscommunication and ensure that the design aligns with planning regulations and local council expectations.
Building a home, especially after a devastating loss, can be emotionally taxing. Recognise the emotional journey involved and be prepared to seek support if needed.
It’s crucial to have a clear architectural layout before beginning construction. Deviating from this may lead to significant issues, such as the miscalculation of floor heights that can complicate the building process.
When designing a tightly fitting structure, allow for material expansion and contraction. Celia and Diana’s house faced issues with fitting windows due to tight tolerances, highlighting the need for flexibility in design.
Ensure that details about materials and features are communicated clearly. Overlooked details, such as door sizes or location of structural elements, can lead to expensive changes later in the build.
Delays in ordering critical components, like windows, can lead to construction halts and exposure to the elements. Place orders early to keep the project progressing smoothly and protect your investment.
Be ready to adapt your plans. When Jon decided to expand his home to include additional bedrooms for his new family situation, it required additional budgeting and planning, showcasing the need to be flexible throughout the build process.
Restoration of historic buildings can take much longer than expected. Be prepared for delays in gaining permissions, unexpected archaeological requirements, or structural issues. Ensure your timeline is flexible.
Building a home is not just a physical endeavour; it can evoke many emotions that affect relationships. It’s crucial to remain supportive of each other throughout the process, as building can test Collaboration and communication skills.
Be honest about your financial capacity. Taking on excessive loans can lead to a precarious financial situation. Ensure you have a clear repayment plan before committing to significant borrowing.
While it’s tempting to do everything yourself to save money, it may not always be feasible. Tom and Danielle started off doing much of the work themselves but eventually needed to hire contractors to keep the project on schedule.
Consider open-plan designs to maximise space and improve flow in your home. A well-thought-out open-plan concept can enhance both light and functionality.
While it can be tempting to cut costs by taking on tasks yourself or underestimating the need for skilled labour (like hiring a crane), always Prioritise safety and craftsmanship by hiring professionals when necessary.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.