Consider elements that will make the home more adaptable for future needs, such as installing a future-proof lift or considering energy-efficient options like solar panels from the outset.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Consider elements that will make the home more adaptable for future needs, such as installing a future-proof lift or considering energy-efficient options like solar panels from the outset.
When using specialised construction solutions (like bird-proof glass), thoroughly vet suppliers to avoid issues during procurement and installation.
Use sustainable materials and methods in your build. The Irvines were conscious of their environmental footprint, incorporating insulation made from recycled materials like newspapers.
Be patient and prepared for potentially lengthy timelines in restoration projects, especially with planning approvals. Expect delays and don’t rush the process to avoid cutting corners.
Invest in quality materials upfront, particularly for essential structural elements such as glazing and steel. This ensures durability and safety, minimising the chance of costly repairs or replacements later.
Select materials not only based on aesthetics but also durability and compatibility with local conditions. The use of dark tiles was intentional, helping to reduce the building’s perceived size while ensuring it suits its environment.
If you lack construction experience, consider hiring or consulting with professionals for certain tasks. Chris and Leanne chose to do most work themselves, which led to a steep learning curve and some delays—professional input could have streamlined their efforts.
Angelo aimed to maintain the spirit of the cave while adding modern features. It’s essential to respect the unique attributes of your building while balancing contemporary needs.
Consider delaying decisions on layouts until the physical structure is visible. As Alan noted, it would have been beneficial to evaluate the space before finalising room arrangements.
Design should not only reflect aesthetics but also functionality. Ensure that the layout supports how you will live in the space, considering flow and usage patterns.
Delays in obtaining structural engineering drawings led to significant setbacks. Engage qualified professionals early to mitigate project delays and avoid unexpected costs.
Always include a contingency in your budget for unforeseen expenses. Ed and Vicky’s budget exceeded the initial estimate, partly due to delays and changes in scope. Aim to allocate extra funds for unexpected costs.
Home building is often a protracted process that requires patience. Be flexible in your design as things develop, as your vision might evolve based on what works best structurally and aesthetically.
Be aware of the seasonal and environmental constraints of your chosen building materials. For instance, cob cannot be worked on in winter conditions. Plan your construction schedule to accommodate such limitations.
If you have children, involve them in the building process. Not only does this create lasting memories, but it also helps them understand the changes happening to their living space.
Understand the property’s condition, any potential legal issues, and the budget needed before bidding at an auction. Conduct comprehensive surveys beyond the basic ones, particularly for older buildings where hidden problems can arise.
Incorporate sustainable materials and technologies to ensure the long-term efficiency and environmental friendliness of your home, as seen with the use of insulation and solar panels in this project.
Pay attention to the physical and emotional wellbeing of the builders. The workload can be heavy, and burnout is a real risk, so make sure to take breaks and support one another.
While creativity in design is important, ensure that each element serves a practical purpose. For instance, a revolving bookshelf should not only be a fun feature but also provide functional storage.
Use technology to keep team members on the same page, especially if managing long-distance communications. This can include video calls, shared digital plans, and photo updates.
Verify contractor availability and willingness to work on your project before commencing. The twins faced difficulty in finding enough contractors willing to work within their tight budget, which delayed progress.
Construction projects can be stressful. Allocate time for self-care and seek professional help if needed to manage anxiety and stress levels.
While beautiful views and design are important, ensure that all elements of the house provide the necessary practical functions for living, such as safety barriers and effective drainage systems.
A self-build can be an emotional rollercoaster. Monty mentioned feeling overwhelmed and even losing passion for the build. It’s important to Prioritise mental well-being and seek support from friends and family during stressful times.
Maintain open lines of communication with your build team. Regular updates and discussions can prevent miscommunications that lead to costly errors or delays (as seen with the lintels and window details).
Building a home can be a taxing emotional process, especially when timelines extend. Maintain open communication with your partner and be supportive of each other throughout the journey to mitigate stress.
Building a home can be an emotionally taxing experience, particularly if it impacts personal relationships. Make time for regular check-ins with your partner to discuss feelings and expectations throughout the process.
Building a home can be emotionally taxing. Be prepared for stress and be proactive in managing your mental wellbeing throughout the project.
Repurposing materials from the existing structure can be cost-effective. Be creative in finding new uses for old features, such as pews or wood, which can maintain the history of the building.
If you decide to take on project management duties yourself, dedicate significant time and attention to the build. A hands-on approach, as practiced by Sarah, facilitates better control of the project and can enhance communication with tradespeople.
While the charm of an old structure can be alluring, avoid letting romantic notions cloud practical judgment about the building’s costs and potential pitfalls. Prioritise functionality alongside aesthetic goals.
Balancing eco-friendly initiatives with aesthetic desires is vital. Ensure all stakeholders (like family members) are involved in design discussions to harmonise functional and aesthetic elements.
Maintain open channels of communication among family members and those working on the project. Regular updates can help manage expectations and create a shared vision of the project.
Look for cost-effective and eco-friendly materials. In Ben’s case, barley straw bales provided both a thermal envelope and structural properties at a fraction of the cost of conventional materials.
Consider how building materials will blend with the surrounding landscape. Patrick drew inspiration from local agricultural buildings, which helped his modern design settle harmoniously within its rural setting.
If financial issues arise during construction, avoid drastic changes to your original plan without consulting with design and construction professionals. Consider if changes will compromise the overall vision.
Recognise your limitations. For specialised tasks (like installation of solar panels or large glass sections), hire professionals instead of trying to do it yourself, as mistakes can be costly.
As the project evolved, focusing on essential elements first and postponing nice-to-haves until resources allow is practical. Adaptability to changing circumstances is vital in self-building.
Recognise that even with thorough planning, challenges are likely to arise. Decision-making under pressure can lead to unexpected outcomes; stay flexible and keep an open mind to solutions.
Ensure that interior design choices reflect a cohesive vision, particularly when making choices while shopping remotely, as the couple experienced. This helps to avoid mismatches and creates a harmonious living space.
Conduct thorough site assessments to locate utility lines, such as sewer pipes, to prevent potential disruptions and additional costs during excavation.
Successful self-builds require a coherent vision that reflects your family’s lifestyle. Each design element should enhance the overall functionality and aesthetic rather than just filling space.
Always approach your budget with a sense of reality. Be aware that the final cost can significantly exceed initial estimates, and consider a contingency fund to cover unexpected expenses.
When rebuilding after a loss or redesigning, consider integrating modern techniques with traditional styles to enhance your home’s appeal and performance.
Understand that renovation or conversion projects, especially with old buildings, can experience significant delays. Factor this into your planning and avoid having a strict deadline that could cause unnecessary stress.
It’s essential to have a contingency fund. Unexpected expenses can arise, especially with pioneering designs, such as the need for additional materials or structural adjustments. Having extra funds can reduce stress.
Engage with local construction materials suppliers and contractors who may provide valuable insights and assistance for your specific project.
Regularly monitor the construction to ensure that work is on schedule and in line with your vision. Engaging in key phases of the process can help you identify issues early on.
Even if you have professional experience, such as being an architect, understand that hands-on building can be drastically different from design work. Be prepared to face the physical demands of manual labour.
When selecting a site, consider access for large vehicles and construction materials. Inadequate access can complicate the delivery of supplies and impact the project’s schedule.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.