When planning a self-build, align your expectations with the reality that projects often take longer and cost more than initially estimated. Always anticipate potential delays and budget overruns.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
When planning a self-build, align your expectations with the reality that projects often take longer and cost more than initially estimated. Always anticipate potential delays and budget overruns.
While negotiating costs for materials is important, approach it with caution. Going for the cheapest option can sometimes lead to poor quality, as seen with the roof decision. Ensuring quality should be Prioritised, particularly for crucial components like roofing.
The design brought together the old and new structures of their property. Understanding how to harmonise different architectural styles and materials can create a beautiful transition and preserve character.
Every material comes with inherent characteristics, such as concrete’s thermal properties. Knowing these can help in making informed choices that optimise the comfort and energy efficiency of the home.
Be prepared for and manage potential delays gracefully to minimise stress. Have a flexible mindset and a backup plan to adapt if timelines shift, particularly when utilising specialised materials.
Each decision, no matter how small, has implications on aesthetics and functionality. Mark and Julie’s focus on details like symmetry and quality finishes contributed significantly to the final result. Never underestimate the importance of achieving a high-quality finish.
Utilise experienced project managers, architects, and builders to aid in interpreting your vision. Their expertise can help you navigate the complexities of construction without losing sight of your own design goals.
Conduct thorough assessments of the land before building, especially if it has an industrial history. The Irvines undertook extensive soil tests, which resulted in delays but were crucial for safety.
When choosing a site, assess the geographical and environmental challenges it presents, such as elevation and weather patterns, which can affect construction and liveability.
Be aware of the seasonal and environmental constraints of your chosen building materials. For instance, cob cannot be worked on in winter conditions. Plan your construction schedule to accommodate such limitations.
Building projects can encounter numerous unexpected challenges, including issues with contractors going bust or planning restrictions. Building resilience and flexibility into your planning can help you navigate these setbacks when they arise.
Flexibility and adaptability are crucial. Barry’s journey involved many unexpected challenges, from health issues to changes in financial circumstances. A willingness to adapt to changing situations can alleviate some of that pressure.
As you restore, appreciate the building’s evolution and incorporate aspects of its history into your design. The couple acknowledged later additions with cultural significance, like Victorian wall panels, ultimately deciding to retain them as part of the building’s narrative.
Be flexible and willing to adapt your plans based on life changes, such as starting a family or changing financial situations. This might lead to a more satisfying outcome ultimately.
Have a contingency budget for unexpected costs. Nathan and Amye’s final cost exceeded their initial budget significantly, primarily due to the scale and complexity of the build.
Understand that building a home is an emotional and stressful process. Being aware of this can help you manage expectations and approach challenges with a mindset geared towards problem-solving rather than frustration.
Investing in high-quality materials and craftsmanship (even if they are expensive) often pays off in the long term through durability and aesthetics.
The integrity of an underground house relies heavily on effective waterproofing. Invest in high-quality, tested materials and ensure that they are applied correctly. Remember that once the structure is buried, access for repairs will be limited.
Keeping track of produce and expenditures is essential for meeting self-sufficiency requirements. Builders should consistently document their inputs and outputs to assess their progress and comply with regulations.
Set a realistic budget that includes a buffer for unexpected costs. Jon’s initial budget of £250,000 ultimately grew to £500,000, showing the importance of detailed financial planning and allowing for contingencies in your budget from the start.
Initial timelines often need to be adjusted. What starts as a 9-month build can easily stretch to 18 months. Allocate extra time for unexpected issues that arise in older or complex structures.
Familiarise yourself with local building codes and sustainability standards early in the planning phase to avoid design conflicts and penalties later.
Maintain open channels of communication among family members and those working on the project. Regular updates can help manage expectations and create a shared vision of the project.
Conduct thorough soil tests before planning foundations. The couple needed to install deep piles due to marshy soil, which increased complexity and cost.
Always include a contingency in your budget for unforeseen expenses. Construction can be unpredictable, and having financial flexibility can save stress in the long run.
Building can be emotionally taxing; establish support systems and take breaks to maintain perspective. Tom faced burnout due to various stresses, highlighting the importance of mental health.
Striking a balance between design and functionality is crucial. While Andrew embraced modernist design, Deborah Emphasised creating a liveable home, demonstrating the importance of considering how space works for the family.
If you’re building with a partner, ensure constant communication. Agree on major decisions early on to avoid conflicts later, as building projects inevitably involve numerous choices.
Check the numbering and sorting of delivery components. In this case, there was confusion over log components which delayed the construction process. Accurate sorting can save valuable time and reduce frustration during assembly.
Engaging in smaller, non-skilled tasks (like painting) can help you control costs and contribute to the project, but be cautious about overextending yourself or taking on too much at the expense of professional craftsmanship.
Understand that not all your ideas or visions may materialise as expected. Finding happiness in your home is more about the life lived within it, not just the aesthetics.
Understand the nuances between different prefab houses. The Iredales learned the importance of selecting a reputable company (Huf Haus) to ensure a smooth building process.
Be prepared for environmental factors such as wind, salt, and moisture, especially in coastal areas. Ensure that materials and designs are suited for the location to avoid issues like rust or significant wear.
Capture the journey of your build. Not only does this create lasting memories, but it can also serve as a reference for troubleshooting issues in the future or for communicating your vision to others.
While enthusiasm for doing it yourself can be commendable, Recognise your limits. It’s okay to hire professionals for aspects of the project that require specialised skills.
Throughout the renovation, reassess your plans and goals regularly. Adapt as new challenges arise to maintain both financial viability and project integrity.
Their ambitious timeline of completing the house in 12 months proved challenging. Planning realistic deadlines and allowing for flexibility will help manage expectations and reduce anxiety.
Some older buildings may not support modern designs or layouts effectively. Before starting your renovation, consult with a structural engineer to assess whether your design intentions align with the building’s capabilities.
Before starting any renovation, assess the structural integrity of the building. This may involve hiring specialists (like structural engineers or archaeologists for historical sites) to ensure safety and compliance with regulations.
While kit homes can expedite the building process, be prepared for their limitations in architectural appeal. Ensure that your kit design meets your aesthetic and functional needs.
Acknowledge that a self-build can test personal relationships. Be ready for conflicts and find ways to discuss and resolve these issues amicably.
Understand when a task is completed and don’t over perfect.
Always expect your project to go over budget. Build in a contingency fund (at least 10-20% of your total budget) to accommodate unforeseen costs or changes in scope, such as structural changes or design flaws.
Acknowledge your skills and experience level. Tom, despite being an entrepreneur, had no real building experience, which contributed to many challenges. New builders should consider sticking to projects that match their expertise or collaborate with experienced builders.
Familiarise yourself with local building regulations and potential zoning issues early. Rosa and Craig faced logistical challenges that stemmed from insufficient research.
Don’t limit your designs based on existing planning norms or what you think will be acceptable. Be bold in your vision and create a case for the concept you are passionate about.
Recognise and celebrate the small victories during the building process. These celebrations can boost morale and maintain momentum.
Maintain open communication with your architect, contractors, and anyone involved in the build. Regular check-ins can help keep everyone on the same page and can mitigate misunderstandings.
When working with new materials or approaches (like lime wash), test on a small scale to understand their behaviour and appearance under different conditions before widespread application.
Effective communication with contractors and team members is crucial. Misunderstandings can quickly lead to errors and frustrations, as seen with the window installation issue. Establish clear lines of communication and regular check-ins.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.