Enhance communication between all parties involved in the construction process. A lack of clarity can lead to significant misunderstandings and costly corrections.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Enhance communication between all parties involved in the construction process. A lack of clarity can lead to significant misunderstandings and costly corrections.
Be actively involved in the build from the start. The more engaged you are, the better the outcome and fit for your lifestyle needs. This project saw improvements only when the owner began contributing ideas and decisions.
If your build is in a region with harsh weather conditions, consider how these will affect both the construction process and the building’s final integrity. Choose materials and design features that can withstand local weather.
Incorporate modern technologies such as double glazing thoughtfully into your design. Ian and Sophie’s use of super-thin double glazing in compliance with conservation requirements helped achieve their energy efficiency goals.
Ensure you understand the implications of insurance claims and be proactive in managing any insurance-related issues. Colin and Marta faced delays waiting for their insurance payout following a fire, impacting their project’s cash flow.
If you have other responsibilities (like running a business), ensure there’s a balance between your self-build project and those responsibilities. Neglecting either can lead to unmanageable stress.
In self-builds, expect delays due to many factors—weather, material sourcing, or labour availability. Having a buffer in the completion schedule can reduce stress.
It’s common for construction costs to exceed initial estimates (in this case, by around 25%). Always include a contingency fund in your budget for unexpected costs like increased material prices or additional structural needs.
Use proven materials, especially for functional areas like kitchens and bathrooms. The decision to use plasterboard in unusual ways can lead to issues later on, so it’s crucial to consider durability and practicality in all your choices.
Understand that you may need to make compromises throughout the build. Whether it’s due to budget constraints or structural limitations, being flexible can lead to creative solutions that may enhance the overall design.
Vet various suppliers for crucial materials early and secure contracts to mitigate risks. Barry struggled to find a suitable glazing supplier, significantly impacting both time and budget.
Prefabricated materials can significantly streamline the construction process and enhance quality. This method reduces uncertainties associated with traditional building, but remember that the groundwork must be precise.
Although budget constraints can tempt you to cut corners, investing in good quality materials can lead to long-term savings and reduce maintenance costs.
Flexibility can be beneficial in self-building. Plans may need to change based on materials or circumstances, so being adaptable will help you make the best decisions for the project as it progresses.
Recognise your strengths in the building project, and don’t hesitate to delegate or seek expert help when necessary. It’s vital to know when to step back and allow professionals to manage areas outside your expertise.
Consider the potential future needs of your household when designing your home. For instance, adaptable spaces can accommodate growing families or changes in lifestyle.
Acknowledge and celebrate the completion of stages throughout the build process to maintain enthusiasm and motivation among your team.
Ensure that the structure is watertight before moving on to the internal fittings. Attempting to speed up the construction by prioritising internal work over making the building waterproof led to water damage, which can become expensive to fix.
Before starting, have a clear understanding of your site’s zoning, height regulations, and neighbouring properties. Henry faced challenges due to the listed wall and site restrictions, which affected design choices.
Understand that self-building can be emotionally exhausting. Prepare mentally for the ups and downs that come with long-term projects.
Understand that building a home is not just about the end product; it’s also about the experiences and lessons learned through the process. Take time to appreciate the journey.
While attention to craftsmanship is crucial, it’s also important to maintain momentum. Focus on completing the core structure before getting lost in details that can wait until later.
Prioritise eco-friendly practices, such as using reclaimed materials or energy-efficient systems. Not only does this benefit the environment, but it often adds character and reduces costs.
Look for energy-efficient solutions that fit within financial constraints. For instance, the Wilsons opted for high levels of insulation and a wood burner, which were effective choices that did not overly stretch their budget.
While using reclaimed materials can be budget-friendly, ensure you have clarity over what is available. Relying too heavily on chance can stifle the project and lead to delays and additional costs.
Understand local planning laws and secure the necessary permits well in advance. In this instance, the Cadney Moons needed to leverage an ancient planning law to build, which required prior knowledge and preparation.
For builds in vulnerable locations, consider engineering solutions such as seawalls or rock armour to protect your foundation from erosion. Investigate local regulations on implementing these protective measures early in the planning process.
Embrace the learning curve that comes with a self-build project. Skills gained throughout the process, like managing design and construction elements, can be invaluable for future projects.
Construction schedules are often affected by weather conditions. It’s important to have patience and prepare for inevitable delays by building some flexibility into your timeline.
Michelle and David’s success can be attributed to sticking to their original design without significant changes throughout the process. Frequent alterations can lead to budgeting and scheduling complications.
Don’t compromise on quality. Insisting on high standards can prevent dissatisfaction later, especially with visible aspects of the build like the steel frame, which must be aesthetically pleasing as well as functional.
While it’s tempting to take a hands-off approach and let the professionals lead, ensuring that you have competent architects and builders can greatly affect the quality and success of the project. Trust their judgment but stay engaged in the process.
Be prepared to adapt your plans as the project evolves. Challenges will arise, and being adaptable to change can help keep momentum and morale high.
Always clarify responsibilities with subcontractors regarding things like waterproofing or additional work. A clear understanding could prevent unnecessary costs and delays.
Chronicling the building process can help you look back and appreciate your accomplishments and learnings. It’s valuable to have a record of the project, including challenges and successes.
Building projects often face unexpected delays and costs. Prepare for this possibility in your timeline and finances; building in a buffer can help manage stress and ensure flexibility.
Despite budget overruns, Jonathan and Deborah insisted on getting what they envisioned. New self-builders should clearly define their non-negotiables in the design to ensure they are satisfied with their final product.
Effective communication and Collaboration between partners are critical. Understanding and merging different visions, like functional design and family-friendly spaces, can avoid misunderstandings and potential conflicts later.
Use standard dimensions for windows and other materials whenever possible. This reduces custom costs and can lead to significant savings without sacrificing aesthetic quality.
When choosing materials and design, factor in the surrounding environment. Using local materials that blend aesthetically with the surroundings can enhance the home’s integration into the landscape and appeal to future buyers.
When building in coastal locations, consider the logistics of site access and infrastructure, such as roads. The unique driveway design of the lighthouse added complexity and cost due to the unstable cliff.
Before embarking on a build, it’s crucial to have a clear design vision and understand the materials and processes you might need. Researching different building methods and materials can save time and costs down the line.
Prior to beginning any build, ensure you have a comprehensive understanding of all costs involved, including materials, labour, and potential unforeseen expenses. Avoid relying solely on a speculative valuation of your finished home to secure additional financing.
When restoring historic buildings, strive for a balance between preserving heritage and adapting to modern living standards. The couple aimed to create a modern home while respecting the building’s historic aspects, showing that it’s possible to find a middle ground that satisfies both conservation and contemporary needs.
Take your time to get the finishing touches right, even if it means delaying your move-in date. Rushing can lead to dissatisfaction in the long term.
Understand that obtaining planning permission can be a lengthy and complex process, especially in protected areas like national parks. Be patient and prepared for potential setbacks; Fred and Saffron spent seven years obtaining their permissions.
Avoid burning out yourself and your team. John worked excessively long hours, which led to fatigue. Balance is key—consider taking breaks to maintain morale, health, and project enthusiasm.
Renovating an older property can take longer than anticipated. Patience is key, as rushing through can lead to mistakes or compromises that may affect the building’s integrity.
Restoration of historic buildings can take much longer than expected. Be prepared for delays in gaining permissions, unexpected archaeological requirements, or structural issues. Ensure your timeline is flexible.
Don’t underestimate the importance of establishing good relationships with material suppliers and contractors. Paul found success with a local supplier who went the extra mile, which was crucial for the timeline.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.