Acknowledge that mistakes will happen, whether in design or execution. Use these moments to gather experience and knowledge for future projects, rather than dwelling on setbacks.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Acknowledge that mistakes will happen, whether in design or execution. Use these moments to gather experience and knowledge for future projects, rather than dwelling on setbacks.
Precision in measurements is critical, especially with large features such as windows and doors. Ensure all measurements are double-checked before ordering materials to avoid costly changes or replacements later.
Invest ample time in the planning phase, including design and logistics. Rushing this stage often leads to costly and time-consuming changes later on.
The Iredales camped in a caravan during their build. Plan your project timeline based on seasonal weather conditions, as construction delays can occur due to adverse weather.
Take time to appreciate the progress and milestones throughout the build process. It can be easy to get lost in details, but recognising accomplishments is crucial for morale.
While using reclaimed materials can be budget-friendly, ensure you have clarity over what is available. Relying too heavily on chance can stifle the project and lead to delays and additional costs.
Sustainability shouldn’t compromise aesthetics. While focusing on an eco-friendly build, strive for an attractive design, as the appearance can affect your satisfaction and the property’s value in the long run.
While landscaping may be viewed as a secondary concern, it can significantly impact the overall feel and value of your home. Plan landscaping early to complement the structure and outdoor spaces.
If conditions change (such as losing a builder), learn to adapt your strategy quickly to keep the momentum of the build going.
Consider how unique architectural features can become selling points for the property. The couple’s water tower home became a local attraction, showcasing the power of unique designs to enhance property value.
Equipment like insulation, plumbing, and electrics are foundational. Do not sacrifice these critical components to save money, as ignoring them can lead to much larger problems down the line.
If you plan to take on the project management role yourself, ensure you’re adequately prepared for the scale of management required. Without prior experience, this can quickly become overwhelming.
Choose materials thoughtfully, considering not only aesthetics but also durability and function. Understand how different materials perform and their implications for maintenance in the long term.
Include accommodation costs during the build process in your budget, especially if you need to rent a place while your home is under construction.
Acknowledge that any build can take longer than expected. The ten-year duration of this project is a reminder that perseverance is often more important than timelines.
It’s crucial to have a clear architectural layout before beginning construction. Deviating from this may lead to significant issues, such as the miscalculation of floor heights that can complicate the building process.
Have a contingency budget for unexpected costs. Nathan and Amye’s final cost exceeded their initial budget significantly, primarily due to the scale and complexity of the build.
In regions with unpredictable weather, ensure that your building is designed to withstand the environment. Consider reinforced structures and wind-resistant designs.
Anticipate the need for change in your living situation over time. Like Paul and Penny, who transitioned from a large, underused house to something more reflective of their current needs, understand that your home should adapt to your evolving lifestyle.
Maintain clear communication with all parties involved in the project to ensure everyone understands the vision, timelines, and expectations. Ian and Sophie navigated many challenges while coordinating between architects, contractors, and conservationists.
Ensure that all materials and components are delivered on time and in full. Missing components can halt progress and create significant confusion and delays.
If you lack construction experience, consider hiring or consulting with professionals for certain tasks. Chris and Leanne chose to do most work themselves, which led to a steep learning curve and some delays—professional input could have streamlined their efforts.
Engage knowledgeable professionals like architects and project managers early in the process. Their expertise can help avoid costly mistakes and streamline the building process.
Familiarise yourself with local building regulations before ordering components like windows. Misunderstandings regarding requirements can lead to costly reorders and delays.
Understand that many aspects of self-building will involve a learning process. Be prepared to spend time acquiring new skills, and don’t rush through critical tasks without proper knowledge.
Designing interiors for round or uniquely shaped spaces can be quite different from traditional layouts. Plan early for bespoke furniture and fittings that will work with your design’s geometry.
The location of the plot not only affects the design possibilities but also the emotional connection to the home. Ensure that the site resonates with your family’s needs and future aspirations.
Before starting your self-build, thoroughly understand the local planning laws and history of the site. As Mike and Sarah discovered, 26 previous planning applications were rejected; knowing these details ahead of time could save time and frustration.
Integrate sustainable practices and materials into your build. Not only does this enhance the ecological value of the project, but it can also improve long-term cost efficiency and comfort.
Be adaptable with design choices to accommodate material availability and local regulations. Using reclaimed materials is often cost-effective but requires flexibility in your initial vision.
Building a home can be daunting. Celebrate small achievements throughout the process to maintain morale and motivation.
As a self-builder, maintain direct and regular communication with both your builders and project manager. Being physically present and checking on progress frequently can help prevent miscommunication and align expectations.
When estimating costs, always account for potential overspend. Underestimating can lead to compromises or cut corners later in the build, affecting the quality and functionality of your home.
When choosing a site, assess the geographical and environmental challenges it presents, such as elevation and weather patterns, which can affect construction and liveability.
Take your time with design and planning. Ensure that every detail is accounted for in advance, especially when dealing with complex structures that might not adhere to standard building practices.
Always factor in potential unexpected costs, such as unsuitable site conditions that may require extensive excavation. Patrick’s unfortunate encounter with a seam of basalt rock significantly impacted his budget and timeline.
Familiarise yourself with local planning regulations and building codes early in your project to avoid delays in obtaining permissions.
Anticipate differences in taste and functionality preferences. Engage constructively in debates over design features, understanding that flexibility can often yield a better, more personalised outcome.
Instead of fighting site challenges, find creative solutions that work with them. This can lead to unique design features that enhance the overall project.
Be cautious when selecting bespoke features (like the staircase and fireplace). It’s easy for these high-end choices to inflate the budget significantly beyond what is manageable.
Utilise computer-aided design tools to visualise your project and anticipate challenges before physical work begins.
Creating physical models of your designs can clarify complex geometries and identify potential construction challenges before building begins.
While having a creative vision for your home is important, ensure your ambitions align with your budget and skills. Jon advises being modest in expectations to maintain morale and keep the project manageable.
Explore alternative solutions to reduce costs, such as using local resources for lifting heavy materials instead of renting expensive machinery.
Ensure that all measurements are precise and confirmed by professionals before ordering structural elements. Small discrepancies can lead to significant delays and costs.
Open-plan designs can lead to a loss of privacy and functional challenges, particularly when adapting spaces originally not designed for residential use. Consider incorporating defined living spaces while maintaining openness.
Building schedules often change; develop a flexible timeline and remain prepared to adapt. Davi and Matt’s precise scheduling turned out to be a challenge, as unforeseen complications led to missed deadlines.
Be aware that building on a brownfield site can come with hidden challenges, such as old infrastructure that might require remediation, which can increase both time and costs.
Keep family members involved in discussions about design and timelines to avoid conflicts and ensure that everyone’s needs and preferences are considered.
While it’s great to aim for striking designs, consider the practical implications, such as spatial arrangement and liveability. High-end aesthetics shouldn’t come at the cost of functionality.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.