Consider how specific design choices (like the “upside-down” living room concept) can improve functionality and enhance daily life. Personalise your space to fit your lifestyle.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Consider how specific design choices (like the “upside-down” living room concept) can improve functionality and enhance daily life. Personalise your space to fit your lifestyle.
Think about future needs when planning your design. Space should be flexible to adapt to lifestyle changes—such as adding an extension if a family grows—rather than being fixed to an initial concept.
If you or family members have health conditions, Prioritise your home’s design to accommodate these needs, such as avoiding direct sunlight for those with compromised immune systems.
Utilise computer-aided design tools to visualise your project and anticipate challenges before physical work begins.
Document all thoughts and plans in written form. Visual planning aids can help everyone involved understand the workflow and execution, reducing chaos and confusion.
Don’t shy away from incorporating modern technology that meets building regulations and can enhance energy efficiency and comfort in the home.
Understand that self-building can be emotionally exhausting. Prepare mentally for the ups and downs that come with long-term projects.
Before beginning work, ensure that detailed and accurate surveys are conducted. Inaccurate measurements can lead to costly and time-consuming design revisions.
If conditions change (such as losing a builder), learn to adapt your strategy quickly to keep the momentum of the build going.
Stay open to changes in design and layout as the build progresses. Flexibility can sometimes lead to improvements that align better with your needs and experiences during construction.
Think about how the design and layout will impact your daily life. A home should function well for the inhabitants and feel welcoming and comfortable.
Be prepared for how the building project will impact your daily life, from time commitments to the nature of family interactions. Balancing project needs with family life is crucial for maintaining harmony.
Particularly when working with family or friends on a project, maintain open lines of communication to manage expectations and responsibilities.
Design should reflect personal taste rather than chasing current architectural trends. A well-thought-out design resonates more meaningfully with occupants.
Understand that self-building can be a stressful process, leading to arguments and discontent. Expect emotional ups and downs, and find healthy ways to manage conflict.
Living in temporary accommodation while building can be challenging. Evaluate your family’s needs and how long you will be living in tight quarters. It’s not just about the inconvenience; it can also affect family dynamics and well-being.
Be open to revising your plans based on practical realities discovered during the build. Flexibility in your approach can prevent stalemates and maintain project momentum.
Be open to adjusting your design and plans based on practical realities encountered on-site. Flexibility can save time and resources.
Always interview and assess the experience of architects and consultants before hiring them. Ensure they have relevant experience specific to the project, especially in complex areas like conservation.
If you are co-building with a partner, engage them in discussions about the project. Shared responsibility can help manage stress and ensure both parties’ vision is incorporated.
When planning to sell an existing home to fund a new build, time the sale carefully to avoid interim arrangements that can cause stress. Consider delaying the sale until the new home is almost complete to minimise the need for temporary housing.
Keep a close watch on the build, but avoid micromanaging decisions in areas where you lack expertise. Paul and Penny’s hands-on approach was both beneficial and challenging, as they juggled extensive detail while trying to maintain overall project control.
Building projects require adaptability. Be open to changing plans or compromise when ideas don’t work out as anticipated.
When tackling an unconventional build, such as an earth-sheltered house, ensure that your architect, project manager, and contractors have relevant experience. This can help avoid potential pitfalls and costly mistakes resulting from unfamiliarity with the design challenges.
The design should directly relate to your individual lifestyle needs. James demanded features that integrate his love for boating into the home, which resulted in a unique structure that satisfied his desires for open spaces and direct water access.
Ensure that everyone involved in the build is clear on their roles and the project goals. This is especially important if you’re managing volunteers or friends.
Often, skimping on quality materials or rushing the build results in greater long-term costs. Investing in quality from the start pays off in durability and satisfaction.
Establish a good working relationship with English Heritage or other relevant agencies. Their approval is crucial for modifications, and they can provide valuable guidance on conserving the building’s integrity and history.
Have a plan for unforeseen circumstances, such as needing to dig up and re-lay a slab or change materials mid-project. Being prepared can save time and help keep things on track.
Keep thorough records of all decisions, changes, and expenditures throughout the building process. This documentation can serve as reference material for future projects and help resolve disputes.
Recognise that self-building can be seasonal or weather-dependent. Schedule tasks in a way that maximises productivity without compromising quality due to external conditions.
While it’s essential to have a vision, ensure it is realistic given your financial constraints. Sometimes, scaling back can lead to a more manageable project, both financially and logistically.
Don’t hesitate to bring in specialists for complex elements of your build, especially when dealing with unique features like natural swimming ponds. It’s better to receive guidance than risk potentially damaging mistakes.
Maintaining morale throughout the project is crucial. Celebrate progress and milestones, as this fosters a positive mindset and keeps motivation levels high during potential slowdowns.
Spend time interviewing multiple architects to find one who understands your vision and respects your budget constraints. Consider their past projects and seek references from previous clients regarding budget management and overall satisfaction.
Even if you are using reclaimed materials or an unconventional approach, having a foundational plan or design helps guide the project and mitigates issues of structural integrity and aesthetics.
Keep a close eye on your budget but remain open to making adjustments to decisions for the long-term benefit of the project. For example, Dean and Sarah switched to a less expensive roofing material without sacrificing functionality.
If managing the project becomes overwhelming, don’t hesitate to lean on experts like architects or conservation specialists. Their knowledge can lead to innovative solutions that respect the building’s history.
Familiarise yourself with local building codes and regulations. Daren faced challenges with UK regulations but found more flexibility in France. Knowing these rules can save you from significant headaches down the line.
Be savvy about sourcing materials through auctions or online platforms to stretch your budget. This can lead to significant savings while still achieving desired quality.
Successfully completing a distinctive project can lead to unexpected opportunities. Helen and Chris saw a considerable increase in interest in their architectural practice due to their unique self-build project.
Building or renovating a home can take longer than anticipated. Factor in potential delays, whether from contractors, materials, or planning approvals, and maintain patience throughout the project.
When planning the layout, consider how much space you truly need and how it will be used. A smaller, efficiently designed home may function better than a large, underutilised one.
Building a home should be gratifying. Embrace the journey of design and construction, and remember to take moments to appreciate the progress and the vision becoming a reality.
Be mentally and financially prepared for unforeseen challenges, such as the gas leak they encountered. Quick resolutions can save time and money, so have contingency plans in place.
Transforming a challenging structure can feel overwhelming; Recognise and celebrate small milestones to maintain morale throughout the process.
Despite meticulous planning, be prepared for changes as the build progresses. The unexpected challenges faced by Jane and Robert necessitated adaptations to their original plans, underscoring the need to remain flexible and problem-solve on the go.
Before purchasing a plot of land, particularly in flood-prone areas, conduct an extensive assessment including flood risk from the Environment Agency flood maps. This preparation can help you understand potential challenges ahead.
Working with international contractors can present language and logistical challenges that complicate the project. Ensure clear communication and set expectations from the outset.
When building for specific needs, particularly for individuals with mobility challenges, every aspect of the design (e.g., door widths, switch placements) should be meticulously planned to ensure ease of access and comfort.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.