Consider how the new home will impact your lifestyle. For example, the distribution of space in a larger home can be different from what you’re used to.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Consider how the new home will impact your lifestyle. For example, the distribution of space in a larger home can be different from what you’re used to.
Be prepared to change your plans based on challenges encountered during the build. Adaptability can often lead to innovative solutions to unforeseen issues.
Building a home is often a partnership. Keep open lines of communication with your partner and any involved professionals, and ensure everyone’s ideas and concerns are acknowledged.
Foster clear and ongoing communication with your partner and any hired help. This is particularly important when juggling multiple roles to avoid misunderstandings that could lead to costly delays.
Before starting your build, familiarise yourself with local planning laws, especially if you are considering building in a rural area. Farmers often have special allowances, so ensure you know what you can and cannot do.
Community led building projects build a relationship with the neighbours before they become neighbours. It can strengthen bonds and improve the community spirit.
Familiarise yourself with planning permissions and local regulations. Misunderstandings regarding permissions can lead to significant hurdles in the building process.
Take advantage of community support or skilled friends for labour-intensive tasks. This not only speeds up the build but also fosters a sense of community and reduces strain on you as the primary builder.
Understand that your connection to the home will deepen as you invest time, energy, and creativity. This emotional bond can be both a reward and a source of stress throughout the building journey.
Construction projects often run late due to a variety of factors such as weather, contractor availability, or design changes. Build in extra time for each stage to avoid frustration.
Recognise that building a home can be a rewarding and fulfilling journey. Engage in the creative aspects, but remain mindful of the challenges involved.
While passion for a particular style (like Art Deco) is important, it’s crucial not to lose sight of the functional aspects of the home. Ensure that comfort and liveability are Prioritised alongside aesthetic goals.
Design your home to maximise natural light, even if it requires innovative solutions like focused window placements or integrating reflective materials. Natural light has substantial mental and physical health benefits.
Ensure the design of your home is functional as well as aesthetic. Ben Prioritised light and openness, which created a warm and inviting space, contributing to the house’s overall comfort.
Before starting your build, ensure your vision is clearly defined. Creating a unique architectural style, particularly one inspired by a specific theme, can lead to challenges if not well-planned and articulated.
Take access and site layout into account when planning construction logistics. Choose delivery methods and schedules that are well-suited for steep or difficult terrains.
Jonathan took the initiative to serve as a community liaison, which helped foster goodwill with neighbours. Being proactive in building relationships with those around you can smooth over potential conflicts and enhance community support.
If your design involves unconventional shapes and materials (like the zinc shards), be prepared for increased complexity in construction. Ensure that you’re working with builders who are experienced with non-traditional designs.
Sometimes, the result of your hard work may not align with the original vision. Be willing to adapt and adjust your expectations to appreciate the unique identity your new home develops.
Conduct a thorough check of any structural elements. Understanding the integrity of the building and addressing issues, such as unsafe walls or roofing, is critical to a successful renovation.
Building a home can be emotionally taxing, especially during personal hardships. Plan for unforeseen circumstances and ensure you have a financial cushion to handle unexpected challenges, including possible changes in income or health.
If necessary, consider completing one unit or section of the build first, especially if you plan to live on-site during construction. This can help with transitioning into a completed living space.
Building projects often take longer than anticipated. Allow room in your timeline for potential delays due to weather, material sourcing, or labour issues.
Maintain open lines of communication with every party involved in the build—architects, builders, suppliers—to ensure clarity and minimise misunderstandings that can lead to costly mistakes.
Acknowledge personal and family dynamics while designing your space. Every family has unique needs that need to be reflected in the design and layout.
Steps taken in the project must often be flexible to accommodate unforeseen issues. Chris and Leanne became adept at making quick decisions when faced with delays or changes—this adaptability is crucial in a self-build.
The couple often faced unexpected challenges, like fitting problems with the glass. Developing a contingency plan for various scenarios can help cope with unforeseen problems efficiently.
While beautiful views and design are important, ensure that all elements of the house provide the necessary practical functions for living, such as safety barriers and effective drainage systems.
Sometimes, stepping away from decision-making can help to re-evaluate the situation. Over-involvement may lead to stress and oversight of critical flaws in the plan.
Even if you are using reclaimed materials or an unconventional approach, having a foundational plan or design helps guide the project and mitigates issues of structural integrity and aesthetics.
Be prepared for unforeseen challenges—whether environmental (like severe weather) or logistical (like supply issues)—and maintain flexibility in your plans to navigate these obstacles.
Familiarise yourself with local building codes and regulations early on. Knowing what is required can help streamline processes and avoid costly revisions.
Design your home according to your lifestyle needs. Incorporating functional spaces like mudrooms (to manage the mud and mess of farm life) is crucial for integrating your working and living environments seamlessly.
Construction projects often encounter delays. It’s crucial to set realistic timelines that account for potential issues and remain flexible in adjusting your expectations.
While it’s tempting to complete the project quickly, Prioritise quality and integrity over a rushed timeline. Poor workmanship or materials due to speed can lead to long-term problems.
Jonathan and Deborah spent nearly a decade searching for the right plot. New self-builders should be prepared for a lengthy search process and not rush into purchasing property that doesn’t meet their needs.
Be proactive in securing financial backing. Their experience with mortgage rejection underlined the importance of ensuring banks understand your project and personal financial circumstances well in advance.
Prepare to pivot your plans as issues arise; flexibility can ease the stress and challenges. Accept that not everything will go as initially planned and be ready to make necessary changes on the fly.
Before commencing, carefully evaluate the site and its challenges. The couple spent a significant portion of their budget on proper foundations to address issues with tree roots and potential earth movement, highlighting the importance of addressing site-specific concerns.
Avoid the mistake of not employing a quantity surveyor for cost estimation. Getting professional help early can provide an accurate forecast of costs, preventing significant financial shortfalls down the line.
While creating a unique architectural design can be exciting, be aware that unconventional structures may face more scrutiny during the planning phase. Understand local aesthetics and community preferences, as these can influence project acceptance.
Flexibility can be important in a building project, but it must be balanced with strategic control. Regularly reviewing and adapting plans with your team allows for smoother workflow while maintaining the project’s integrity.
Be ready to adapt your plans as you progress. New insights and desires can emerge once the construction starts, and flexibility can help in creating a home that truly suits your needs.
Collaborate with skilled architects and engineers who understand the specific challenges of your site. Their experience can help navigate complex issues more efficiently.
Before embarking on a self-build project, assess your skills and the time you can realistically dedicate to the project. Tom and Danielle had to juggle running their business with building their home, which led to immense stress and pressure.
While ambition in design is admirable, ensure that the design remains practical. Consider how complicated architectural elements or multi-level designs could impact construction time and costs.
Understand that building your own home, especially one involving restoration, can be emotionally intense. Support from family and a strong personal commitment can sustain you through challenging times.
Each build is unique, and there will be moments of trial and error. Document what works and what doesn’t to improve your understanding for your next project.
If faced with complicated financial situations, such as high debt or multiple mortgages, consulting with a financial advisor can provide clarity and alternative options.
Think long-term regarding how your needs might evolve. Building a home is not just about the present but about creating a space that can grow with you.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.