Building on-site can enhance your connection to your land and work life. Look for options that allow you to stay close to your activities, reducing travel time and increasing your engagement with your property.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Building on-site can enhance your connection to your land and work life. Look for options that allow you to stay close to your activities, reducing travel time and increasing your engagement with your property.
Clearly define your role in the project. Trying to do both project management and hands-on work can lead to confusion and mistakes, potentially increasing costs.
Be prepared for additional and unanticipated expenses, particularly related to unique features of older buildings, such as restoration of elements that meet historical standards. Costs from digging foundations unexpectedly increased due to the discovery of unsuitable ground conditions.
Self-building can be an emotional journey. Living adjacent to construction can be stressful, especially with children involved. Preparing mentally and emotionally can be just as important as the physical construction process.
Stay grounded about what you can achieve within your means, especially regarding construction timelines and cost estimates. Aim to create a home that meets your current needs rather than an idealised vision of a dream home.
Establishing a clear budget from the outset is essential. However, it’s equally important to leave room for unforeseen expenses. Richard and Felicia initially budgeted £150,000; keep in mind that costs may inflate, so adjust your budget to accommodate this.
Building a good working relationship with tradespeople can ensure more reliable and trustworthy work, as well as potential cost savings through negotiated rates.
Living on-site during the build can be beneficial for oversight but also adds stress and can slow down progress. Establish clear ground rules to minimise disruptions and maintain a good working relationship with the contractors.
Always have a financial cushion for unexpected costs. Relying too heavily on a fixed-price contract without understanding potential ‘client changes’ can lead to disputes and unexpected bills.
Ensure that, while aesthetic appeal is important, the design remains functional and liveable, especially in communal spaces like kitchens and living areas.
Consider how to incorporate modern conveniences in your design. The couple added high-tech systems to make the impractical home functional, highlighting the importance of blending old structural beauty with modern living requirements.
Before starting a complex project like a Passivhaus, ensure you have a well-defined plan and timeline. Understand the technology and methodologies involved. Self-builders should take time to educate themselves about the specifics of the build to avoid confusion later in the process.
Employ unique and environmentally friendly design concepts to help secure planning permission, especially in restricted areas. The “stealth house” concept of being unseen from normal viewpoints contributed significantly to their success.
For projects involving unconventional materials, ensure access to examples of similar completed works to satisfy stakeholders — as was done by visiting a finished steel-clad building to demonstrate the intended aesthetic.
Be adaptable with design choices to accommodate material availability and local regulations. Using reclaimed materials is often cost-effective but requires flexibility in your initial vision.
Understand that materials like green oak, while aesthetically pleasing and durable, may require ongoing maintenance (such as cleaning tannin stains).
Take the time to interview multiple architects and select one who shares your vision. A good architect not only designs but also helps you navigate building complexities, ensuring your dream is translated into reality effectively.
Monitor your project’s financial situation closely. Sean’s funding troubles were exacerbated by the bank’s need for assurance on spending due to the recession, illustrating that cash flow management is vital in construction projects.
Cultivating relationships with local communities will not only enrich your cultural integration but also create support networks relevant to your new lifestyle.
Opt for materials that provide environmental benefits without compromising quality. The use of eco-friendly concrete panels and sustainable insulation not only contributed to their project’s goals but also reduced their carbon footprint.
Understand that using recycled materials, especially in traditional methods like tire building, is labour-intensive. Be prepared for the physical demands this will place on you and your team.
Utilising online resources for design and project management can provide convenience and expansive options, as seen in Jane’s ability to design her house via the internet.
Establish clear lines of communication and set expectations with builders and contractors. While informal agreements based on trust can work, a clear contract detailing scope, timelines, and responsibilities can prevent misunderstandings.
Don’t hesitate to consult professionals when faced with complex engineering challenges. Hiring specialists can prevent mistakes that may cost more than the initial consultation fees.
When inspired by an iconic architectural design, consider how well that design translates to your specific location and budget. Be prepared to simplify or modify your vision if necessary to ensure it is feasible.
Don’t limit your designs based on existing planning norms or what you think will be acceptable. Be bold in your vision and create a case for the concept you are passionate about.
Don’t compromise on quality. Insisting on high standards can prevent dissatisfaction later, especially with visible aspects of the build like the steel frame, which must be aesthetically pleasing as well as functional.
Be prepared for a significant learning curve. The twins mentioned naivety in their initial approach, which highlights that experience will teach valuable lessons that can lead to better decision-making in the future.
Know the planning regulations before starting a project, especially in conservation areas. Engaging with local authorities and understanding what is permissible can lead to a much smoother approval process.
Remember that building for oneself can be vastly different from building for others. Learn from every mistake and unexpected setback—this is part of the growth process.
Consult with surveyors familiar with your project type to gauge how certain investments (like staircases or roofing) affect the overall value of your property. Sometimes, a small expense can significantly increase the property’s market value.
Set a comprehensive budget and include contingencies for unexpected costs. Jo and Shaun significantly exceeded their initial budget, which led to financial strain. Understanding and planning for inflation in costs is crucial.
Don’t shy away from bold architectural choices, especially if they stem from your vision or artistic inclinations. Such designs can contribute to the cultural landscape and provide personal satisfaction.
Utilising modern technology for project management can enhance organisation and efficiency. Tools such as digital diaries, scheduling apps, and building plans help keep everything structured.
Pay attention to the impact of your design on the surrounding landscape and existing structures. This can make your home feel more cohesive and appropriate for the area.
Enhance communication between all parties involved in the construction process. A lack of clarity can lead to significant misunderstandings and costly corrections.
Regularly discuss progress and concerns with family members. This ongoing communication can alleviate stress and clarify expectations throughout the project.
Be realistic about timelines; construction projects often take longer than expected. Allow for unforeseen circumstances, such as weather delays or sourcing materials, and include flexibility in your schedule.
As unexpected challenges arise, be willing to adjust your plan. Patrick’s ability to adapt to changing circumstances (like the foundation issues) helped keep the project moving forward.
Take the role of project manager seriously or hire someone experienced. Jimmy oversaw virtually every detail but lacked the experience needed for a project of this scale, leading to costly mistakes and delays. Consider hiring a project manager if you are inexperienced.
Design your home with functional spaces that fit your lifestyle. Ed and Vicky created areas for both living and business, such as the kitchen for catering and the Pilates studio. Make sure to consider how each room will be used.
If you’re relying on contractors for specific elements, coordinate their availability carefully. Delays from subcontractors can halt progress and extend your timeline unnecessarily.
Expect that not everything will go according to plan. Schedule adjustments may be needed, and it’s essential to remain adaptable to delays caused by planning permissions, weather, or material availability.
Poor understanding on how much things cost (not using a Quantity Surveyor) can cause overspend and a longer build. It’s important to have a clear budget and timeline from the start of a complex project.
When multiple family members are involved, ensure that everyone understands the vision and expectations surrounding the build. Jon’s relationship dynamics changed when he included his new partner in the project, which necessitated adjustments to their plans.
Self-building involves a steep learning curve. Embrace mistakes as opportunities to gain skills and improve. Adaptability can lead to unexpected solutions and enhancements to your original vision.
Understand that original plans may need to be adjusted based on budget constraints. When the costs for their initial design were unfeasible, they worked with an architect to develop a more affordable solution.
Collaborating with artists to create unique aspects of your home (like custom kitchen cabinetry or sculptures) can add a personal touch and ensure your living space feels special.
Often, your ideal vision may not be feasible within budget or technical constraints. Be prepared to make compromises and adapt your plans as necessary to stay on track financially and logistically.
Ensure that a detailed, professional structural survey is conducted before purchasing an old property. Initial assumptions can be misleading, and structural integrity issues can lead to significant unforeseen costs and extensive work.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.