Design with your lifestyle in mind. Theo and Elaine ensured their home was not only sustainable but also functional for their family, integrating spaces that foster both connection and privacy.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Design with your lifestyle in mind. Theo and Elaine ensured their home was not only sustainable but also functional for their family, integrating spaces that foster both connection and privacy.
Delays in obtaining structural engineering drawings led to significant setbacks. Engage qualified professionals early to mitigate project delays and avoid unexpected costs.
Research new materials thoroughly before deciding to use them. Micah faced challenges with cross-laminated timber (CLT) as it was a new material for both him and the contractors. Knowledge about the materials can minimise construction complications and delays.
Design your spaces to be adaptable to changing family needs over time. Andrew and Deborah’s open-plan design allowed them to adjust easily as their children’s needs evolved.
Don’t hesitate to hire specialists for critical aspects of the build, such as project management and ventilation systems. This can ensure that expert knowledge is applied to complex problems.
Understand the local regulations around renovating listed buildings, including necessary permissions. Familiarity with these can help avoid delays and ensure respect for the building’s heritage.
The experience with weather revealed essential considerations for roofing and designs, like avoiding living spaces directly under balconies. Understand how environmental factors may affect your building choices and plan accordingly to avoid structural issues later.
Choosing sustainable materials can be beneficial economically and environmentally. The Cadney Moons chose to use Scandinavian timber, which has proven benefits in terms of insulation and sustainability.
Engage with self-build resources, courses, or communities to gain more knowledge about the building process. Building experience can help in decision-making and problem-solving throughout the project.
Consider how your building project can also contribute to local biodiversity. Richard and Sophie’s green roof allowed for their home to blend into the local ecosystem, proving that building and nature can coexist beneficially.
Recognise that building a home can be a stressful process. Managing public expectation, especially when filming for a television show, can add pressure. Prepare for emotional ups and downs throughout the building journey.
Don’t hesitate to bring in skilled friends or professionals when faced with tasks outside your expertise. Collaboration can improve the quality of the work and alleviate pressure on you.
Ensure that your home design incorporates accessibility features that can future-proof the space. Planning for potential physical limitations, even as they stand presently, is essential for long-term independence and usability.
Embrace the learning curve that comes with a self-build project. Skills gained throughout the process, like managing design and construction elements, can be invaluable for future projects.
Delays and unexpected challenges, such as unforeseen pandemic impacts on finances or availability of materials, can and likely will occur. Having a resilient plan and a flexible mindset is crucial.
If balancing family life, work, and the build becomes overwhelming, don’t hesitate to hire professionals to take over. Protecting your personal and professional relationships should come first.
Always prepare for costs to exceed initial estimates. The final restoration cost significantly surpassed the original budget. Include contingency funds to manage unforeseen expenses, like those due to structural failures during the build.
Understand how and when funds will be released during the build process, as many construction loans won’t disburse until certain milestones are reached. This can create cash flow problems if not planned properly.
Building a home can be an emotional rollercoaster. Maintaining resilience and a positive outlook when setbacks occur will help keep the project moving forward.
Acknowledge that the self-build process can be emotionally taxing. Having a supportive partnership and a good sense of humour can help navigate the stress that comes with construction challenges.
Establish a realistic timeline for your project based on careful assessment of what it entails. Sean aimed for an eight-month completion but ultimately faced significant delays. Unrealistic timelines can lead to rushed work and mistakes.
Engaging with mentors or industry professionals can be invaluable but be mindful of their availability and contributions. Relying solely on informal arrangements can lead to delays and unforeseen complications.
Prior to beginning any build, ensure you have a comprehensive understanding of all costs involved, including materials, labour, and potential unforeseen expenses. Avoid relying solely on a speculative valuation of your finished home to secure additional financing.
Always do comprehensive research on a property before purchasing, especially if it comes with existing tenants. This includes understanding zoning, existing structures, and any restrictions that may influence your build.
Accept that building involves trial and error and that plans may need to change as the work progresses. Enjoy the creative process and be willing to adapt your initial vision.
Work with architects and builders who are experienced in handling complex projects, especially on sensitive sites. Their expertise can help navigate red tape and create solutions that please planners and heritage bodies.
Hands-on experience or training in similar construction techniques prior to embarking on a large project can vastly improve the quality of your work and your efficiency.
While prioritising home building, do not neglect the economic aspects, like establishing a smallholding or business. Builders need to maintain a balance between constructing a home and satisfying financial and sustainability targets.
Select an architect not only for their vision and creativity but also for their ability to listen and adapt to your needs. Their design should be supportive of both the aesthetic and functional needs of your lifestyle.
Use technology to keep team members on the same page, especially if managing long-distance communications. This can include video calls, shared digital plans, and photo updates.
Build spaces that can evolve over time. As Michael learned later, the functionality of their home needed to adapt when family circumstances changed, highlighting the importance of thinking ahead for future needs.
Take the necessary time to plan and execute each build phase correctly. Rushing can lead to mistakes that require costly fixes.
Recognise that building a home can be a rewarding and fulfilling journey. Engage in the creative aspects, but remain mindful of the challenges involved.
Choose materials based on your specific environmental conditions. Living in an exposed area, Colin and Marta wisely opted for durable materials like corrugated aluminium, but they also had to manage maintenance issues like corrosion.
Be mentally and financially prepared for unforeseen challenges, such as the gas leak they encountered. Quick resolutions can save time and money, so have contingency plans in place.
Always expect your project to go over budget. Build in a contingency fund (at least 10-20% of your total budget) to accommodate unforeseen costs or changes in scope, such as structural changes or design flaws.
When designing your home, consider materials and aesthetics that reflect the local architectural context to mitigate resistance from the community, as seen with the controversial cladding in this case.
Successful projects require constant communication between the builder, architect, and client. Regular check-ins and updates can mitigate misunderstandings.
Always include a contingency fund in your budget for unexpected expenses. Theo and Elaine learned the hard way that costs can easily exceed initial estimates, requiring them to take on extra work to save money.
While it’s natural to want to create something unique and innovative, be sure to provide your architect with a clear, specific brief to avoid misunderstandings. Vague instructions can lead to a house that strays from your initial vision.
Utilise experienced project managers, architects, and builders to aid in interpreting your vision. Their expertise can help you navigate the complexities of construction without losing sight of your own design goals.
Consider how your building practices and material choices can contribute to sustainability. Research eco-friendly systems and materials that complement your building’s design.
Establish a good working relationship with English Heritage or other relevant agencies. Their approval is crucial for modifications, and they can provide valuable guidance on conserving the building’s integrity and history.
If costs are rising unexpectedly, explore options for additional financing early in the proceedings to avoid being pushed into difficult decisions later on.
Renovation projects can strain relationships. Maintain open communication about expectations and frustrations to mitigate conflict and maintain morale.
Keeping a journal or blog about your self-build process can help capture the challenges and joys of building a home. This can be therapeutic and insightful for you and others considering a similar path.
Often, your ideal vision may not be feasible within budget or technical constraints. Be prepared to make compromises and adapt your plans as necessary to stay on track financially and logistically.
Understand local planning laws and secure the necessary permits well in advance. In this instance, the Cadney Moons needed to leverage an ancient planning law to build, which required prior knowledge and preparation.
In community builds it is a good idea to set up a creche onsite to relieve the pressure of childcare.
Often, skimping on quality materials or rushing the build results in greater long-term costs. Investing in quality from the start pays off in durability and satisfaction.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.