Understand that you may need to make compromises throughout the build. Whether it’s due to budget constraints or structural limitations, being flexible can lead to creative solutions that may enhance the overall design.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Understand that you may need to make compromises throughout the build. Whether it’s due to budget constraints or structural limitations, being flexible can lead to creative solutions that may enhance the overall design.
Successful self-builds require a coherent vision that reflects your family’s lifestyle. Each design element should enhance the overall functionality and aesthetic rather than just filling space.
Always allocate extra funds for unexpected costs. The budget initially set at £300,000 ballooned to £400,000 due to contractor issues, underlining the importance of planning for contingencies.
Be adaptable with your design and execution plans. Sometimes compromises are necessary to align reality with permits and planning authority requirements.
Recognise your limitations and when it’s time to bring in professionals. Don’t let pride or budget constraints prevent you from seeking help, particularly for specialised tasks or when accidents occur.
While attention to craftsmanship is crucial, it’s also important to maintain momentum. Focus on completing the core structure before getting lost in details that can wait until later.
Engagement with local architects and builders from the start can save significant headaches. Tim’s relationship with his architect was crucial for realising his vision and integrating new designs within the old structure.
If your existing structure contains hazardous materials like asbestos, plan for thorough and safe demolition. This can take significantly longer and may involve specialised contractors.
As challenges arise, sometimes plans need to shift. The Raffields learned to adapt their approach, whether it meant adjusting deadlines or methodologies to suit changing circumstances.
Keep the overall vision and philosophy of the build in mind, focusing not only on aesthetics but also on how the home integrates with its environment sustainably.
Even if you avoid worrying family members, maintaining open lines of communication with those directly involved in the building process can help manage expectations and garner support—especially for unconventional projects.
While it can be rewarding to take on work yourself, some tasks require professional expertise—especially for specialised aspects such as waterproofing or structure integrity.
Embrace the learning curve that comes with self-building. Richard actively researched and adapted new information throughout the project, which led to continual improvements and innovation.
It can be tempting to cut costs by opting for cheaper materials or solutions. However, investing in high-quality, sustainable materials can pay off in performance and durability in the long term.
Real estate market fluctuations can impact your budget. Be prepared for the possibility that selling your existing property may take longer than expected, and have contingency plans, such as securing additional funding.
Invest in high-quality insulation from the start as it significantly impacts long-term heating costs. Colin and Marta viewed insulation as an investment for their future by reducing energy costs.
Understand the topography and geological composition of your plot. Steep slopes and rocky ground can significantly increase construction complexity and costs.
Engage professionals—such as architects and quantity surveyors—early in the process to provide expertise and keep the project on track. This can help mitigate budget overruns and design conflicts.
Choose contractors with experience in similar projects to ensure they can handle the unique challenges presented by older buildings. The team experienced initial surprises that led to increased costs and project delays.
Capturing the building process can be beneficial not just for personal reflection but also for sharing knowledge with others who may follow in your footsteps.
Carefully evaluate how your designs will work in practice. Open spaces can create a sense of freedom, but ensure they also serve your daily living needs effectively.
Understand that intricate designs can cause delays, especially if unexpected engineering challenges arise. Keeping a flexible timeline is crucial for managing stress during the construction process.
Take the time to Recognise and celebrate the progress made on the project, no matter how small, to keep spirits high through the longer phases of construction.
Ensure clear, ongoing communication with your contractor and all trades involved. Discuss the project scope and any changes thoroughly to avoid misunderstandings about what’s included in the contract.
Calling on family and friends not only fosters a sense of community but can also help with labour and support tasks. This can make the process more enjoyable and less daunting.
Set a realistic budget that accounts for potential overruns and unexpected expenses. Having a financial buffer can alleviate stress and allow for necessary updates during construction.
Angelo had a strong vision for his retreat but had to adapt plans according to challenges encountered, such as the utility layout. Don’t hesitate to revise your ideas while maintaining the core of your concept.
Before construction begins, ensure that all structural drawings and designs are complete and thorough. Incomplete specifications can cause delays and cost overruns.
Even if you’re keen to take on a lot of the work, hiring a main contractor can save time and reduce stress. Their expertise will help navigate challenges that arise during construction.
Invest time in selecting colours and materials that will not only stand the test of time but also reflect your personal design style. Don’t be afraid to advocate for your design choices—even if they conflict with conventional wisdom.
In designing an open-plan living space, ensure that there are enough private areas for family members to escape to when needed. This will help maintain harmony in a shared living environment.
Utilise computer-aided design tools to visualise your project and anticipate challenges before physical work begins.
Include accommodation costs during the build process in your budget, especially if you need to rent a place while your home is under construction.
Avoid overcomplicating your design, which can lead to increased costs and challenges. Focus on effective and straightforward construction methods.
Incorporate energy-efficient solutions like solar panels and rainwater collection systems, as Daren and Adi did. This not only reduces utility costs but aligns with sustainable building practices.
Self-building is a massive undertaking that requires significant physical and mental energy. If you lack experience in construction, consider hiring an experienced builder or mentor to provide guidance throughout the process.
Be flexible and ready to make adjustments based on lessons learned during the construction process. Ed and Vicky had to modify their design and timelines based on various challenges.
The choice of an eco-friendly prefab house not only minimised waste but also ensured a high-quality build. Explore sustainable options to reduce your environmental impact during construction.
Monty had a team of friends helping him, but poor communication led to confusion and inefficiencies. Clear instructions and regular updates are vital for keeping everyone on the same page.
Building a home can be an emotional journey, particularly when tied to family history and memories. Factor in emotional support systems and Recognise that the journey may be more challenging than anticipated.
Involve your local community in your project to foster good relationships and potentially gather support. This could also help mitigate any neighbours’ concerns during construction, especially regarding access.
Aim for a design that is not only beautiful but also practical. Patrick Emphasised the importance of creating spaces that feel natural in their environment while still being liveable.
Embrace creative solutions and remain flexible throughout the design and building process. Steph and Alex had to modify their dream home significantly, including making design adjustments to save on costs.
If you’re inspired by a certain aesthetic or style (like Moroccan design), be open to adapting it to fit your personal circumstances, local architecture, and practical needs. Trying to replicate a style exactly may lead to suboptimal results.
Even if you hire professionals, stay engaged in the decision-making process, especially regarding design and material choices. This helps ensure the final product aligns with your vision.
If borrowing is necessary, research all funding avenues thoroughly. Understand the terms and conditions, and confirm that the structure of your loans supports your overall financial health.
Aim to incorporate sustainable practices into your build from the start. Fred’s commitment to a zero-carbon home influenced many design and material choices, which ultimately shaped the success of their project.
Transitioning from traditional materials like bricks to modern timber framed construction required Paul to stretch outside of his skill set. New builders should commit to learning about the materials and building techniques they plan to use, ensuring they have the necessary resources and help for complex methods.
Having attempted previous projects can provide invaluable lessons. Each build will teach something new, enhancing future decision-making processes.
When timelines tighten, Prioritise getting the project finished over achieving perfection. Focus on functionality first; aesthetic finishes can often be completed afterward.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.