Building a home can be overwhelming. Don’t hesitate to ask for help from friends, family, or professionals to relieve some burdens and bring fresh perspectives.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Building a home can be overwhelming. Don’t hesitate to ask for help from friends, family, or professionals to relieve some burdens and bring fresh perspectives.
Equipment like insulation, plumbing, and electrics are foundational. Do not sacrifice these critical components to save money, as ignoring them can lead to much larger problems down the line.
Ensure your design not only reflects your tastes but also harmonises with the surrounding environment. This consideration can enhance the beauty and coherence of your home within its landscape.
Monty’s project relied heavily on loans and remortgaging. Consider alternative financing options and plan for the possibility of needing extra funds to avoid financial stress.
Acknowledge that a self-build can test personal relationships. Be ready for conflicts and find ways to discuss and resolve these issues amicably.
While it’s important to have a visually appealing home, ensure functional aspects do not get sidelined. For instance, practical considerations like how to maintain a glass-heavy design should be addressed in the planning stage.
Collaborating with artists to create unique aspects of your home (like custom kitchen cabinetry or sculptures) can add a personal touch and ensure your living space feels special.
While passion for your design is important, be willing to make necessary compromises to stay within budget and on schedule. Some design features may be cut or simplified without sacrificing overall quality.
While DIY enthusiasm is commendable, know when to enlist professionals to avoid costly mistakes. The Iredales benefited from professional workmanship, which was evident in the quality of construction.
If you are managing a project and cannot be there at all times, it’s vital to delegate responsibilities to trustworthy professionals. Justin delegated project management to his architect while he was on fishing expeditions.
Be prepared for the need to adjust elements of your design post-construction. Balancing and levelling the house, for example, required unforeseen changes to accommodate how the house floated.
Understand that your connection to the home will deepen as you invest time, energy, and creativity. This emotional bond can be both a reward and a source of stress throughout the building journey.
Consider how the home will serve your needs in the future. Design with flexibility that allows for adaptations, such as aging in place or accommodating changing family dynamics.
Consider a simpler design to decrease complexity and costs. A minimalist approach with fewer moving parts often leads to a cleaner execution and easier maintenance.
Incorporate fast-track construction methods and prefabrication where possible. These strategies help accelerate the build process and minimise on-site labour costs.
Maintain open lines of communication with the builders, local community, and suppliers. Clear communication can prevent misunderstandings that may cause delays or additional costs.
Weather can significantly impact construction. Prepare for delays and have contingencies in place, especially if your construction timeline overlaps with challenging seasons.
While aesthetics are important, Prioritise practicality in layout and design. Ensuring your family can use every space efficiently will contribute to overall satisfaction with your home.
If renovating, critically assess existing infrastructures, such as water sources and sewage systems, to determine if they can be upgraded efficiently or if alternatives should be incorporated.
Understand the full scope of your project before purchasing land or property. Ed and Vicky initially thought they were just looking to renovate but ended up acquiring a derelict cowshed. Conduct thorough research and have a clear vision to prevent future challenges.
Ensure the design of your home is functional as well as aesthetic. Ben Prioritised light and openness, which created a warm and inviting space, contributing to the house’s overall comfort.
Proper documentation and communication regarding measurements and setting-out points are essential. Mismatched understanding between the builder and project manager led to costly errors in the floor heights that Jane had to live with. Maintain clear records to avoid similar situations.
Select materials that align with your design vision and long-term sustainability goals. The Denbys invested in high-performance glazing which not only enhanced the aesthetic of their home but also provided energy efficiency benefits.
Think about how design and renovation choices will impact the future value of the property. Their choices led to an impressive projected increase in property value, showing that necessary upgrades and aesthetic considerations can pay off in the long run.
Ensure that the design includes functional spaces that meet all family members’ needs. Graham and Mel had to rethink their layout to better suit their family dynamics, which Emphasises the importance of planning for how the household will function.
It is more expensive to buy a plot with property on it and then demolish because you have to buy the remaining utility in the building and also pay for the demolition.
Consider the long-term sustainability of your materials and methods. Opt for high-performance, energy-efficient solutions to minimise heating and cooling needs, which can lower future living costs.
Recognise that personal health issues can impact the project timeline and decision-making. Barry’s heart attack created unforeseen complications, leading to delays and changes in project management.
For complex tasks (like roofing or masonry), consider hiring skilled workers or taking on apprenticeships. Their experience can significantly improve the quality of work and efficiency.
Aim for a budget that includes contingencies. Building an eco-friendly home often comes with additional costs, so it’s wise to account for potential overruns from the outset.
Initial budgets can be overly optimistic. Anticipate additional costs beyond your initial estimate, and build a buffer into your budget to accommodate unplanned expenses. Aim for comprehensive financial planning.
Their ambitious timeline of completing the house in 12 months proved challenging. Planning realistic deadlines and allowing for flexibility will help manage expectations and reduce anxiety.
As it became evident through design decisions (e.g., the substantial loft rafters), sometimes compromises happen, and it’s essential to adapt and pivot when financial limitations arise.
Some aspects of the project may require more labour and thought after initial plans are made (like roofing), so be prepared for some parts of your project to take longer and require more work than expected.
Design should be adaptable to site conditions. The couple’s original ideas evolved throughout the project due to tree root preservation needs and planning feedback. Always have a Plan B for design decisions to avoid last-minute pressures.
Embrace creativity in overcoming challenges. Monty’s inventive solutions, such as designing movable features, showed how flexibility can lead to unique solutions. Think outside the box to utilise limited space effectively.
Often, skimping on quality materials or rushing the build results in greater long-term costs. Investing in quality from the start pays off in durability and satisfaction.
They faced issues with unclear ground levels, which led to additional costs. Employing good surveying techniques from the beginning can help prevent costly surprises and delays during the project.
Prepare for surprises during the construction process, whether it’s weather delays, design issues, or unexpected costs—being mentally prepared helps manage stress.
Proceeding with interior finishes before the structure is watertight can lead to damage and costly repairs. Always ensure the building envelope is completed before moving on to interior work to prevent moisture-related issues.
Understand that many builds come with challenges that may exceed initial expectations. Maintaining realistic goals and adapting plans as needed can facilitate a smoother renovation process.
Engage in the construction process only if you have sufficient understanding and experience. Novices may underestimate the challenges and can face significant frustrations when taking on too much responsibility without proper expertise.
Ensure your design includes functional living spaces. Prioritise creating comfortable environments that meet your practical needs alongside unique architectural aesthetics.
Flexibility and adaptability are crucial. Barry’s journey involved many unexpected challenges, from health issues to changes in financial circumstances. A willingness to adapt to changing situations can alleviate some of that pressure.
When working with heavy materials or potentially dangerous equipment, ensure that safety measures are strictly followed to prevent accidents.
While it’s important to have a timeline, rushing can result in cutting corners. Lee and Richard often had to backtrack on decisions due to hasty actions, which stressed both their budget and timeline.
Michelle and David’s success can be attributed to sticking to their original design without significant changes throughout the process. Frequent alterations can lead to budgeting and scheduling complications.
Establish regular communication with your builders and contractors to ensure that your vision is being understood and implemented correctly. Misunderstandings can result in costly alterations later in the build.
Building projects can encounter numerous unexpected challenges, including issues with contractors going bust or planning restrictions. Building resilience and flexibility into your planning can help you navigate these setbacks when they arise.
Acknowledge the potential for loneliness and stress during a self-build project. Have a support system in place, whether it’s family, friends, or community resources, to help keep you motivated and emotionally stable.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.