Consider the implications of removing significant landscape features (like trees) on both the environment and personal emotions. Make decisions based on the long-term impact and sentimental value.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Consider the implications of removing significant landscape features (like trees) on both the environment and personal emotions. Make decisions based on the long-term impact and sentimental value.
The couple initially focused on achieving a high level of sustainability, but this decision led them to overspend on the structure. It is crucial to Prioritise what is truly necessary for family life first, such as comfort and usability, before luxury features.
It is stressful even for experienced people.
Incorporate fast-track construction methods and prefabrication where possible. These strategies help accelerate the build process and minimise on-site labour costs.
Anticipate delays in the building schedule and order critical materials early on. In Barry’s case, sourcing the specialty curved glass was a slow and expensive process that significantly delayed the project.
Always plan for potential extra costs that may arise, especially for lighting and other integral features that can be easily overlooked in initial budgeting. Allocate contingency funds for unexpected expenses.
Be prepared for design changes that might arise during construction. While design modifications can incur additional costs, they can also enhance the final product if carefully considered.
Construction can disrupt neighbours’ lives; maintaining good relationships and open communication with neighbouring properties can help manage expectations and reduce conflict.
Establish regular communication with your builders and contractors to ensure that your vision is being understood and implemented correctly. Misunderstandings can result in costly alterations later in the build.
While involving friends and family can be cost-effective, ensure the team has the right skills. Consider hiring professionals for more specialised tasks to avoid costly mistakes and delays.
Understand that self-building can be a stressful process, leading to arguments and discontent. Expect emotional ups and downs, and find healthy ways to manage conflict.
Evaluate the accessibility of your building site carefully. If your plot is on a steep hill or narrow route, consider how materials will be delivered and how workers will access the site. Kathryn had to wheelbarrow materials, which required creative solutions to delivery problems.
Integrate modern technologies and materials, such as lightweight concrete blocks and energy-efficient systems, to enhance the sustainability and efficiency of the build, even when aiming for a vintage aesthetic.
Ensure that, while aesthetic appeal is important, the design remains functional and liveable, especially in communal spaces like kitchens and living areas.
Schedule frequent check-ins with your builders and project managers to stay informed about progress and any potential issues. Good communication can help mitigate problems before they escalate.
Converting a building of substantial size and complexity, such as a church, requires careful planning and a realistic assessment of what can be achieved. Ensure you understand the scale of work involved before committing.
While staying open to new ideas throughout the construction process can be beneficial, always hold onto the original objectives and conceptual goals to maintain the project’s integrity.
Use standard dimensions for windows and other materials whenever possible. This reduces custom costs and can lead to significant savings without sacrificing aesthetic quality.
When building a home for someone with specific needs, such as wheelchair access, ensure that accessibility considerations are integrated into the design from the outset. This includes wide doorways, zero-threshold entries, and appropriate bathroom layouts.
Work with architects, engineers, and contractors who have experience with both contemporary and historic structures. Their expertise can guide design decisions and technical solutions that marry the new and old effectively.
When uncovering original features, like fireplaces or plasterwork, be deliberate in your efforts to preserve and highlight them as they contribute significantly to the building’s charm.
Understand that motivations for building a home can be deeply personal and emotional. Plan for how these emotions might affect decision-making throughout the process.
Ensure the utilities, including septic tank condition are useable before purchasing the land/property
Design the home with the future in mind—not just for yourself but for your family as well. Consider how the layout and features will accommodate future children and their activities.
Buildings can never be planned to every minute detail, countless day to day decisions need to be made.
Work with architects and builders who are experienced in handling complex projects, especially on sensitive sites. Their expertise can help navigate red tape and create solutions that please planners and heritage bodies.
Maintain open lines of communication with every party involved in the build—architects, builders, suppliers—to ensure clarity and minimise misunderstandings that can lead to costly mistakes.
Take control of your budget and cash flow. Engage with contractors who have a transparent invoicing process to avoid surprises and manage finances more effectively, as demonstrated by Saffron’s management of their finances during construction.
Recognise that Collaboration can lead to a richer design. Be willing to adjust your vision in partnership with others to create a harmonious space.
Living on-site can be both a boon and a burden. Ensure that you’ve thought through the implications of living in a mobile home on the building site for an extended period.
Angelo aimed to maintain the spirit of the cave while adding modern features. It’s essential to respect the unique attributes of your building while balancing contemporary needs.
Be mindful of the climate in which you are building. The design should efficiently handle seasonal elements such as rain, which can exacerbate construction delays and complicate work.
Even in a prefabricated design, there is room for personalisation. The Iredales integrated their art and design elements, transforming a clinical structure into a home that reflected their spirit.
Building on-site can enhance your connection to your land and work life. Look for options that allow you to stay close to your activities, reducing travel time and increasing your engagement with your property.
Even if you have professional experience, such as being an architect, understand that hands-on building can be drastically different from design work. Be prepared to face the physical demands of manual labour.
Before committing to a self-build, educate yourself about local planning regulations. This project took three and a half years to get through planning, highlighting the importance of understanding what is permissible in your area, particularly in Greenbelt locations.
When having a modern design, take efforts to colour and finish materials so they harmonise with the surrounding neighbourhood, softening the transition between old and new.
Recognise and celebrate milestones, no matter how small, to maintain motivation throughout the challenging build phase. Coming together as a family during key moments can enhance the joy of the new home.
Before committing to a plot, understand the challenges and restrictions tied to it. Jonathan and Deborah faced significant hurdles with party walls, and planning permissions impacting their design and construction strategy. Knowing these details beforehand would help manage expectations and avoid complications down the line.
While engrossed in your project, do not neglect family relationships. Maintaining communication with family members about the build’s progress and the impacts on family time is crucial.
If you are going through health challenges, carefully consider your capacity to manage a build project. Ensure you have adequate support to handle both the physical and emotional demands.
Keep thorough records of all decisions, changes, and expenditures throughout the building process. This documentation can serve as reference material for future projects and help resolve disputes.
Recognise your limitations and when it’s time to bring in professionals. Don’t let pride or budget constraints prevent you from seeking help, particularly for specialised tasks or when accidents occur.
Engage family and friends to help with the physical aspects of the build. Having a reliable support system can make the overwhelming requirements of self-building more manageable.
Engage family members in the design of the home to ensure it caters to everyone’s needs and desires. A house that reflects the personalities and interests of each family member becomes a cherished space.
Balancing your personal responsibilities, work commitments, and building hours can be challenging. Create a realistic schedule that allows for all your obligations, and communicate with family and partners about your time away.
Engaging with the environment surrounding your build can enhance your living experience, as demonstrated by the Randolphs’ plans for a wildflower meadow and lake.
After moving in, observe how the building performs in terms of energy efficiency and comfort. Understand that some systems (like the wind turbine) may not provide immediate results, and adjustments may be necessary later.
Sometimes, the result of your hard work may not align with the original vision. Be willing to adapt and adjust your expectations to appreciate the unique identity your new home develops.
Ensure you understand the implications of insurance claims and be proactive in managing any insurance-related issues. Colin and Marta faced delays waiting for their insurance payout following a fire, impacting their project’s cash flow.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.