Even if you have delegated management to someone else, remain engaged in the process. Frequent site visits can help you stay aware of developments and needed decisions.

I’m on a road of discovery to build my own house.
To find inspiration I review past builds and share my opinion, picking out the features of the buildings, materials and the process.
This is the largest and longest project I have ever undertaken and there will be many lessons along the way. I’ll be sharing them all and creating them as tips that you can use for your build.
Even if you have delegated management to someone else, remain engaged in the process. Frequent site visits can help you stay aware of developments and needed decisions.
Quality detail and craftsmanship are pivotal in achieving a high standard of finish that reflects the chosen architectural style. Don’t shy away from investing in skilled tradespeople for critical tasks.
Understand how the property will meet personal and family needs over time. Justin’s evolving family situation meant that the large space he built needed to be re-evaluated regarding actual usage.
Consider integrating energy-efficient systems, like solar panels or wood-burning stoves, into your design from the outset for long-term savings.
Building on a cliff or an eroding coastal area can pose significant risks. Conduct thorough research and consult experts to understand the long-term implications of your chosen site. Consider potential erosion and seek guidance on site durability.
Remember that not every aspect of your build will be completed quickly or flawlessly. Focus on the bigger picture and the overall goal of creating a comfortable family space, rather than getting stuck on minor setbacks.
Building rapport with your design and construction team can help foster a collaborative environment. Feel free to express your concerns and preferences to ensure your vision is realised while still respecting their expertise.
Decide in advance what elements of the home are non-negotiable versus those that can be compromised if the budget forces it. Being able to Prioritise will help when financial constraints arise.
Building a home should be gratifying. Embrace the journey of design and construction, and remember to take moments to appreciate the progress and the vision becoming a reality.
As unexpected challenges arise, be willing to adjust your plan. Patrick’s ability to adapt to changing circumstances (like the foundation issues) helped keep the project moving forward.
Consider incorporating modern technology such as 3D scanning to facilitate accurate restoration and reduce costs. This was key in Jimmy’s project, allowing for precise measurements and efficient use of materials.
Take an active role in the build if possible. Hands-on experience can not only save money but also offer a deeper understanding of the project. It’s essential to balance this with seeking help when tasks exceed your skill set.
Understand your site’s physical conditions fully before proceeding with construction. Tom built on soft clay needing extended foundation work that delayed the project. Conduct thorough site evaluations to plan accordingly.
Consider the implications of significant life events (like marriage or childbirth) on your build timeline. While these milestones can add stress, effective organisation and delegation can help manage the load.
Ensure that architectural plans are fully finalised and detailed before commencing any construction. Frequent changes mid-project can lead to confusion, increased costs, and a final product that strays from the original vision.
Choose builders and architects with proven experience in similar projects, especially those who understand the nuances of working with historical structures.
While pursuing a unique design is exciting, Prioritise functionality to avoid costly adjustments later. Colin and Marta’s design was ambitious, necessitating careful planning to marry aesthetics with practical living spaces.
Understand that restoration is a time-consuming process. Don’t rush; instead, allow the work to unfold gradually. Relishing the journey will lead to a more satisfying outcome.
Pay attention to the finer details of fixtures and finishes early on in the build. Selecting items that complement your design will help create the cohesive aesthetic you aim for.
Understanding the local planning laws and securing necessary permissions can take time. Paul and Carol faced a two-year battle for planning approval. Start early, communicate well with planning authorities, and be flexible with your design to meet their requirements.
Consider incorporating eco-friendly design elements, such as high insulation standards and renewable energy sources. This not only benefits the environment but can also reduce long-term energy costs.
Ensure your design includes functional living spaces. Prioritise creating comfortable environments that meet your practical needs alongside unique architectural aesthetics.
Maintain clear and consistent communication with all stakeholders involved, including architects, builders, and family members. Miscommunication or assumptions can lead to misaligned visions and execution problems.
Be ready for a significant time investment, particularly if you are doing much of the work yourself. Long, intensive work hours may be necessary, especially during peak building seasons.
Old buildings can hide numerous surprises. For example, Tony uncovered original wallpaper layers and an antique fireplace. Be adaptable and ready to change plans based on these findings.
If you lack previous building experience, be prepared for challenges. It is essential to Recognise that the skills needed for self-building can take time to learn, and you may encounter steep learning curves.
Before starting your build, ensure that all contracts with contractors and subcontractors are detailed and clear. Vague agreements can lead to misunderstandings and financial losses.
If your build is intended to accommodate multiple generations, it’s essential to maintain open communication with all family members involved. Understand their needs, expectations, and concerns early in the planning process.
Angelo had a strong vision for his retreat but had to adapt plans according to challenges encountered, such as the utility layout. Don’t hesitate to revise your ideas while maintaining the core of your concept.
Before committing to a project, understand the local real estate market thoroughly. Barry’s project was affected by fluctuating property values during an economic downturn, which hindered their ability to finance the build.
Utilising local craftsmen and family who have construction expertise can greatly enhance the success of your project. Don’t hesitate to ask for help and knowledge from those with experience.
Older buildings can hide unexpected issues (e.g., structural integrity, hidden materials like asbestos). Be prepared for surprises and have a contingency budget for unforeseen repairs.
Lastly, remember to enjoy the process. Building your own home is a significant endeavour that can be rewarding. Embrace the experience rather than just focusing on the end result.
Remember that building with sustainability in mind means future-proofing the home. Think about how your choices will affect future generations, from energy use to material selection.
Building a home is an opportunity to reflect your personal style and values. Don’t shy away from creative expressions that distinguish your home, but ensure they serve a purpose, adding both functionality and beauty.
Embrace the learning process throughout construction. Each stage provides valuable experience that can enhance your understanding of architecture and construction practices.
When entering a renovation project, ensure that your budget covers not just the purchase price but also anticipated renovation costs, including a contingency for unexpected expenses. The costs for this project spiralled significantly beyond initial estimates.
Don’t get stuck in a mid-ground of the design where sourcing materials for the property becomes difficult because it is too small for a large supplier but too large for a small supplier.
Sometimes, you get what you pay for. Opt for reputable suppliers and products, especially for critical components like windows and roofing, as they can significantly impact the durability and comfort of your home.
Consider enlisting a qualified project manager or consultant, especially if the renovation involves complex structural work. Richard had to juggle shift work as a policeman while managing the build, which created significant strain and delays.
Properly detailed construction drawings save time and help avoid construction issues. Take the time to thoroughly go through plans to ensure they are comprehensive.
Engaging hands-on during the building process can foster community support and show that you’re invested in your project, which can help in gaining local acceptance.
Understand that moving from an old home to a new one can be emotionally challenging. Planning for these feelings can help ease the transition.
Before finalising designs, test them for real-life usability. For example, Jon checked height and accessibility on his prosthetics during the planning phase to ensure the design would work for him in practice.
Be realistic about the timeline of the build and the specific challenges of constructing a home with complex features. Construction often takes longer than expected; patience can prevent added pressure.
Before commencing, carefully evaluate the site and its challenges. The couple spent a significant portion of their budget on proper foundations to address issues with tree roots and potential earth movement, highlighting the importance of addressing site-specific concerns.
Consider employing a project manager or having a dedicated person oversee the project. This can greatly enhance efficiency and ensure that everything runs according to plan, as seen with Deborah’s management skills.
Investing time into planning each phase of the build can streamline processes and reduce the risk of costly mistakes or rushed decisions.
Keep the overall vision and philosophy of the build in mind, focusing not only on aesthetics but also on how the home integrates with its environment sustainably.
If you lack construction experience, consider hiring or consulting with professionals for certain tasks. Chris and Leanne chose to do most work themselves, which led to a steep learning curve and some delays—professional input could have streamlined their efforts.
I also create frameworks to help deconstruct the process and provide tools that can help get over project sticking points.